"Joust" is a word in ENGLISH

joust ENGLISH
Definition:

A tilting match; a mock combat on horseback between two
knights in the lists or inclosed field.

joust ENGLISH
Definition:

To engage in mock combat on horseback, as two knights in
the lists; to tilt.

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The head alone knows what dwells near the heart.

Anonymous, The Poetic Edda: The Mythological Poems

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sciomachy ENGLISH

A fighting with a shadow; a mock contest; an imaginary or futile combat.

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tournament ENGLISH

A mock fight, or warlike game, formerly in great favor, in which a number of combatants were engaged, as an …

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